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Unit Two: How Children Grow and Develop

The Arousal-Relaxation Cycle

The Arousal-Relaxation Cycle was developed by Vera Fahlberg, M.D. and introduced in her book A Child’s Journey Through Placement, 1991.

graphic: need leads to signals of discomfort leads to satisfaction of need leads to signals of comfort leads to need. In the middle is Security, Trust, Attachment

Here is an example of how an infant develops attachment to a caregiver:

Experiences Need: The baby feels discomfort/tension or hunger.

Signals Discomfort: Baby expresses distress through crying, and restlessness.

Satisfaction of Need: Caregiver responds by providing food, clean diaper, holding and cuddling baby.

Signals Comfort: Baby experiences relief of distress, being held, warmth, smell, expression on face of caregiver. Baby relaxes, may fall asleep.

Need Again Increases: Cycle repeats but is modified through learning by both baby and caregivers.

An infant repeats this cycle over and over. Trust is developed over time when each time a need is felt and expressed, it is then met. With this basis, a child is able to develop secure attachments to primary caregivers and other important people in his/her life.

Attachment is a crucial development task.

 

Some factors influencing bonding and attachment include:

  • Child’s “personality” or temperament –irritable, difficult to soothe or calm child.
  • Caregiver’s behaviors-critical, unresponsive or nurturing and responsive to child’s needs.
  • Environment-Living in a chaotic, stressful environment causes fear which impedes healthy attachments. Predictable, safe living arrangement promotes security.
  • The “fit” between the temperament and capabilities of the infant and caregiver is crucial.
  • Abuse and neglect.
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